Was thinking about the gap between what a person fantasies about and what they would actually want. Hence this poll. Personally I can safely say I would have no interest in any of the Non-con ones but a lot of the rest I think I would enjoy.
Like, actually happen? As fantasized? Very few. Have happen in RL roleplay, or as a consensual partnership (a bit beyond 'play'), quite a few.
You're missing a stage in the pole: "A lot of them; except the really dark stuff..." That's where I fall, I wouldn't want the darkest fantasies to be real, but I'd like to have most of the stuff in my head exist, because the world would be awesome!
I think a few of my fantasies would cancel each other out -- for example, I've written about bimbos, and I've written about extremely intelligent women. So if I ever do get the chance to have them come true, I'm going to have to be very careful, lest the universe implode into a black hole of paradoxes.
Or you can get both at the same time, who said you were limited to one? These are fantasies for a reason.