I see there is an "ignore" but I don't want to ignore them I want to prevent them from being updated on what I am writing for various personal reasons that... well if any of you have read my stuff should be obvious if anyone in my life were made privy to what I am writing for whatever reason.
Suggestions should be posted in the Suggestion subforum. I don't get your point with that. If someone knows your account, they would already be aware of what you're writing. This might also lead to users wondering why they don't get notifications as soon as they find out that a followed author had published a new chapter. So they might report this as a bug.
well ideally it would remove you from their view completely, but in my case it is a girl that wanted to read my stuff then got really mad at me because of what I posted. If I post anything else the site will send her an email informing her of such without some way to prevent that from my end.
Well, I would suggest asking Friedman to remove you from her Following list and do the same with Favs in case she favorited your stories. (Though if she knows your account, she could always come back and take a look at your stories. Even if you would change your account name, she might recognize you by your stories.)