Ask Me Anything (as long as it’s not seeking personal information like where I live or my real name). You can ask me anything you want to and I’ll answer! This may be a bit bold to do for this type of site, but eh I figured why not? So send a question, and I’ll answer!
I mean, there's kind of a rule about real life stuff like that. Well there's an audience for it, a number of major authors on the site don't really encourage it. I remember this discussion with an admin before when a kind of similar thing was done. The ruling was that kind of that thing would cause a lot of legal trouble from the technical stand point. From the general stand point, people aren't really in love with it. I may be misunderstanding the intent of your thing. If this is to just ask about upcoming writing projects and stories, that's fine. Sexual information about real life people however, isn't really all that approved of by a good deal of people.
I have multiple stories for multiple characters in the works. Ciri is definitely one but not my top priority right now.
the intent isn’t blatantly sexual questions. I genuinely just want people to ask me whatever they please. If it ends up sexual or inappropriate, I have a slew of cheeky answers prepared lol. I said I’d answer, I never said it would be honest or direct. I just wish to give people the opportunity to maybe learn some things about me.
Real stories describe real persons and real actions. This can go south pretty quickly if someone is remotely identifiable or if it describes actions that are legal to write about but illegal to do. Talking about oneself on the forum should usually be no problem.
? I’m not sure where people are getting this issue from. I mean it’s kind of like saying that I have no control over how I answer the questions. I’m pretty able to give responses that do not jeopardize my safety. And I’m aware of boundaries. Believe me if I think a question crosses the line, I am 100% capable of answering without jeopardizing my privacy. I am well aware of internet safety. I simply have requested people to send me questions, and I can then answer as I see fit knowing my own boundaries and also knowing the rules as they are.
My post was meant to explain why the issue is there in the first place. As I stated, talking about yourself on the forum should usually be no problem.
I’ll bite. I read your forum bio and you mention your sexual inexperience. Is that still true? I think writing as self-exploration of kinks is awesome (and to some degree what we are all doing). If not for the pandemic, do you think your experiences would be much different?
It is true. I’m very much an introvert and someone who doesn’t really like to put myself out there like that. I know, ironic considering I do the exact opposite in my stories. But I guess that’s why they call it a fantasy. See, I really first got into this genre when ThatsEmbarrassing.com was a big thing as well as yourembarrassingmoments.com. I stumbled upon them I don’t remember exactly how, but I did. So after a bit of reading and stumbling down the rabbit hole like literotica, writing.com, Girls Pantsing and Stripping Boards, ASSTR, etc. I started saying to myself, I could write that. See I am a person who has always enjoyed writing. And sites like these ones give me a unique opportunity to explore elements that I wouldn’t otherwise so that’s what I started doing. Ironically, I have no interest in exploring such kinks irl, but I think that’s why I enjoy writing because it gives me opportunities to explore things I would never be apart of myself otherwise. It lets me libe in such experiences without having to experience such things myself. I doubt the pandemic made any difference in my romantical or sexual life. I’m genuinely just a not a person who really “dates” let alone goes any further.
Neat. I think reading about kinks through the mind of a character that responds to them can do a lot to help me to understand them better. I don’t feel like I have a deep enough appreciation of the flavors of embarrassment kinks yet. Is there a particular type that you look for or write about?
My typically lines of work are ENF. Though I’m not afraid to explore more, that does tend to be the genre I write the most. With just recently starting to explore the diaper humiliation realms. At first I was turned off by the ABDL scene, but slowly after reading more, it peaked my interest a bit. Again, I would never want to do so irl, but through writing there’s a lot that can be explored.
If you wonder why I’m into such territories, the answer is: I have no idea. I just am. I can’t exactly explain it. But I guess that’s just how a lot of these things go.
Similarly, themes like piss and scat never made any sense to me until I started to read about the degradation end of humiliation, also appreciating that many kinks that appear similar on the surface might be rooted in different things. And remembering that fantasy kinks can be separate from kinks we hope to explore directly is always important! Have you had reactions to embarrassing moments from your past that make more sense to you now that you’ve explored the kink in literature, or have you only experienced it in writing?
I’ve never experienced a truly embarrassing moment as far as to the extent of what is normally pushed, but I have taken moments in my life and embellished them to the point of it becoming more than it was. For example: the intro to It Started in Disney is true, I really wet my pants in the elevator, but that’s all that happened and I was young when it happened definitely not college aged. I took that memory and turned it into a story that works. But even when I was little I did imagine the what ifs of certain scenarios. But I don’t know if that has to do with the kink or simply me just being a kid with an imagination.
From the small amount of ENF stories that I peeked at, they struck me as innocent women caught in social predicaments. Other than the nudity or passing comments from strangers, many of these read to me as not overtly sexual in themselves. Do you have a story recommendation (one of yours or others’) that gets deeper into the erotic side of things, where the protagonist is struggling with her own arousal, and maybe coming to accept it in herself? I think that would open the door for me.
hmm there’s definitely a lot on this very site. There are some branches in Splotch’s story “Lauren’s Little Secret” that may peak your interest that I and many others have contributed to. But it depends. If you really want deep erotic, I would see if you can find something you like on literotica which often has that type of stories. https://www.literotica.com/stories/
Ok... Lighthearted question: If you were to smear something on a person for the purposes of eating / licking it off, what would it be? (or smear it on yourself for the benefit of another) Something sweet? (flavoured yogurt maybe), or savoury (like houmus or salsa)?
In writing I have nothing against that stuff and I would probably say honey because I imagine that peanut butter would have a weird texture and there’s already the problem of it sticking to the top of your mouth. I don’t know about hummus but I tend to need pita chips and I don’t think people would appreciate me scraping those sharp chips against their skin. Sushi doesn’t sound terrible but then I just imagine the raw fish and rice on their bodies and say nope. In practice, I dunno I’ve never tried it, but I can’t imagine myself eating off someone’s body or having someone eat off of mine. I don’t like being licked there by my dog, and I don’t imagine I’d like being licked there by a person if the sole purpose is to eat food off of me. edit: I realize that makes it sounds like my dog licks my crotch lol. I meant my stomach, you know like eating off the body
