I know your pain, men. Without help and support of few people I couldn't be return to writing too. But in your cause you are still faster than some traveler in journey pass ten years XD
I'm locked in a constant struggle between trying to write erotica and trying to not get too aroused by it so that I can write.
I find I have this issue as well, only it's worse because I need to stay in a state of partial but not overwhelming arousal...