Biggest turn offs?

targetthyself said:
The cup size after D and before E.
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Cup size DD equals E, depending on the size system...

Though I rather wanted to express that DD means nothing as it can be the same volume as an A cup. And if you add all the different bra size systems and metric and imperial measurements, what would you imagine as DD?
 
Personally my turn offs are gore and toilet play(piss and shit) and i can accept some kinds of vore(although its not exactly arousing) but then there are some versions that include degestion and thats like... two for one “nope” deal for me. Although there are certain situations with rough textures like spiked dildos and stomach deformation and oddly enough the toonish varieties are fine despite the lack of realism. And the only other thing i can think of is the obvious of... well generally unattractive types. I dont really have to go too in depth but i think you got the idea of thst last one. And although I would like to think that others feel similarly as i do im not gonna pretend im the “everyman/woman” because everyone gets thier rocks off to something...
 
Definitely incest, and under age. I'm pretty freaky in my kinks but those two things kill any interest for me. This is a real shame since there are a lot of great ideas that have been executed parallel to incest stuff, and I can't enjoy them.

Beyond that, I dislike bimbo tropes. A ditzy sexy girl is one thing, but for some reason when the word bimbo is used the character realism plumits along with my interest. There's the stereotype, and then there's an empty flower pot that that thinks of nothing but kittens, rainbows, and fucking.

Come to think of it, the mega-chad is an equal opposite turn off.
 
Nemo of Utopia said:
It's true, he baited me but good.

Still, the point stands, lines must be drawn, and the majority of you draw them far more loosely than you really ought to. Now, I may disagree with that opinion, and argue against it, but I defend your right to have it, even if you're wrong: as long as you do the same for mine.
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I do think a reasonable distinction can be drawn between fantasy reality. The way I see it, as long as you aren't exacerbating some emotional trauma in your own mind, and are still able to engage respectfully with the world around you, enjoy yourself!

In any event I think you may appreciate Dr. Jonathan Haidt's lectures on his moral value index. He begins one of them at a libertarian think tank (I forget which one) with a thought experiment about pedophilia.

The idea being that the sensitivity of ones moral value of purity is perhaps the most distinguishing of all the others in determining our politics.

I'm sort of rambling. I'm at work on my phone right now.
 
Mean-spirited stories.

I'm a bit of a hypocrite here, some of my chapters are about control or revenge,but outright being a total ass to someone for no reason can take me out of a previously great CHYOA.

Also, IRL characters. It's pretty creepy.
 
Xenolan said:
There are also certain word choices which bug me, such as:
  • "Penis" or "Vagina." This isn't a middle school health class, it's erotica; more colorful language is necessary for the right mood. If I'm reading a novelization about Star Wars, I want to read that the Death Star "exploded into a trillion glowing fragments" - I don't want to read that it "spontaneously combusted."
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Just wanted to say that I, well, disagree with this.

IMHO. using clinical words is important for two reasons; Building emotional distance and providing a low bar to build up from. You may want to build emotional distance if, say, the genitals aren't what you want the audience to be concentrating on in a given scene. If everything stands out then nothing stands out after all and that applies to erotica as well. And you definitely want a good rising tension in a sex scene, which beginning with purely anatomical terms provides; Jumping from "penis" to "pulsing, throbbing cock" provides a noticeable change in the narrative and feel of the mood, wouldn't you agree?

Here are the things that niggle me:

-Little to no build up in sex scenes. Now, you might have written the most immaculate climatic scene in the english language but if it doesn't have the proper rising action to justify that climax all you are doing is giving the audience the equivalent of a premature discharge; It's not satisfying to anyone. Luckily, anyone willing to write 2k posts is most certainly going to have SOME type of foreplay if only through sheer accident. And if they don't, I have no idea what they are doing writing smut. >=(

- 1-to-2 sentence posts or responses. This is most relevant in RPs but come on put on some bloody effort. Talk about the weather, about how the characters' left ass cheek is itching, about what the room smells like, anything! This is fine when Cybering, but in erotica you are trying to tell a story; Don't short change your partners!
 
gene.sis said:
:D can't remember having read something like that. In my experience, it's usually more like four hundred words foreplay before pushing the cock inside which results in (literally) "he fucked her hard and came as he never came before"
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Well, I'll admit it comes mostly in the "posting 1-2 sentence responses". I guess my experience with those have colored my biases >_>
 
I am turned off by "gross" things in general, like piss/scat/gore etc. I also don't like pain though I can brute force through that. Somewhat specific but I also have a turn-off for negative moral judgement.
 
gene.sis said:
:D can't remember having read something like that. In my experience, it's usually more like four hundred words foreplay before pushing the cock inside which results in (literally) "he fucked her hard and came as he never came before"
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Well, you shouldn't read Consequences (about a rich guy that wants revenge on a girl and her family and basically buys her) or whatever that book series is. The sex scene is literally a reference to the sex scene, with very few details. I stopped reading, shortly after realizing that there was not a single shred of evidence. Wouldn't mind it as much, if there was a sex scene in the first place.
 
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