Loeman
Really Really Experienced
I'd say, further, if you're unable to do what I described above, if you're unable to examine, use, and describe different likes aside from your own or that might even contradict your own, that is far more limiting than not finding 'dudes' to be sexy.
Characters can have their own likes and feelings, things that an author should be able to empathize with, examine, play with and mold, even if that same author doesn't personally share those same likes, dislikes, or feelings.
Characters can have their own likes and feelings, things that an author should be able to empathize with, examine, play with and mold, even if that same author doesn't personally share those same likes, dislikes, or feelings.